A path toward support
Support when families separate
For children, teens, parents, and family members worried about safety during separation, divorce, visits, or time between homes.
In immediate danger, call 911 when it is safe to do so. Choosing any button on this site does not dispatch help or file a report.
Separation does not automatically mean abuse. Threats, harm, and controlling behavior deserve attention in any family. The focus here is the child’s safety and access to help.
You don’t have to choose sides to ask for help.
You can care about both parents and still talk about something that scares you. Adult disagreements and court decisions are not yours to solve.
- You do not have to carry messages, keep watch on a parent, or gather proof.
- You can describe what you experienced in your own words. There is no “right story” to memorize.
- If you are afraid of a visit or moving between homes, tell a qualified adult what worries you and whether you fear punishment for speaking.
“I’m worried about something that happens when I visit. Can you help me understand what to do?”
Help me say itA person to talk with
Childhelp supports children, teens, and adults concerned about a child. These options contact Childhelp, not Luke’s Light. Talking to a counselor is different from filing an official report.
Calls, texts, and websites may leave a record on your device. Use a device you believe is safer if you can. Ask what may need to be shared before explaining.
For a parent, relative, or caregiver
Keep the child’s needs at the center. Listen without suggesting answers, asking them to take sides, or making them responsible for your safety.
When abuse is a concern, ask a domestic-violence advocate about individualized safety planning, including visits, exchanges, and safe contact. Ask a qualified local lawyer about custody orders and legal options. This website cannot interpret an order or tell you to change custody arrangements.
“I’m worried about my child during visits or exchanges. What safety support and legal help are available, and how can I raise concerns without increasing danger?”
Calls, texts, and websites may leave a record on your device. Use a device you believe is safer if you can.
Texas: divorce, family violence, and legal-help options
Texas legal information is jurisdiction-specific. Elsewhere, ask an advocate for local legal-aid referrals. Getting advice must not delay emergency action or required reporting.
If you already reported concerns
Explain what remains unresolved and any new incident to the appropriate professional. Ask about available review or escalation processes. Do not ask the child to investigate or rehearse answers.
Find another qualified routeOfficial reporting information