Hurtful words, threats, and controlling behavior
Being called names, threatened, or controlled is harmful — even when no one is hit. Words and threats can hurt and can be a sign of danger.
Everyday examples
- Someone says they will hurt you, a pet, or someone you love.
- Someone calls you stupid, worthless, or worse — often.
- Someone controls who you see, what you wear, or where you go.
One next step
Tell a trusted adult, or contact a help line. You do not have to handle it alone.
Remember
- Abuse is never a child's fault.
- You do not have to collect proof before asking for help.
- You are not responsible for stopping adult violence.
- You do not have to physically intervene or protect everyone yourself.
- You can care about someone and still need protection from them.
In immediate danger, call 911 when it is safe to do so. Choosing any button on this site does not dispatch help or file a report.